Oct 25, 2025

How Gatherings Can Teach Me to Slow Down and Savor the Moments

Sis, have you ever noticed how the best moments in life don’t come from rushing—they come from gathering? Whether it’s a Sunday dinner, a backyard brunch, or a quiet tea moment with your girlfriends, gatherings have this beautiful way of reminding us to breathe, be present, and savor the now.

The Beauty of Being Still Together

In our 20s and 30s, we ran through careers, kids’ schedules, and endless to-do lists. But in our 50s and beyond, life is teaching us something softer: the power of stillness. When we gather with people who fill our cup, we don’t need to perform or multitask. We can just be. Listen. Laugh. Let the conversation flow and the stress fall away. That’s soul nourishment right there.

Every Bite, Every Laugh, Every Story

There’s a sacred rhythm in preparing a meal together, clinking glasses, or telling that same funny story that still makes everyone tear up with laughter. These are the moments that slow our heartbeat and remind us that joy doesn’t need to be chased—it’s right here, in the little things.

Try this at your next get-together: set your phone down, light a candle, and focus on the flavors, textures, and faces around you. Feel how the moment stretches. That’s what savoring feels like.

The Lesson: Presence Over Perfection

It’s not about how fancy the table looks or how perfect the meal turns out—it’s about connection. I’ve learned that when we gather with intention, we learn how to slow down, to taste, to see, and to love more deeply.

So here’s your gentle reminder: gatherings aren’t just about celebration—they’re about reclamation. Reclaiming your peace, your laughter, and your joy in community.

My LTK Picks for Slow Living Gatherings

Each of these pieces adds warmth, texture, and soul to your table—because slowing down should still feel beautiful.

Let’s Chat

When was the last time you truly slowed down and savored the moment? Tell me your favorite gathering memory in the comments, sis—I want to hear what fills your heart.

Oct 24, 2025

Honoring Our Roots: Beauty & Rituals for Día de los Muertos

Hey, my beautiful sisters —

Let’s take a moment to talk about something truly special this season: Día de los Muertos — or Day of the Dead — a time when families come together to celebrate, honor, and remember those who’ve passed on, not with sadness, but with color, love, and joy.

While rooted in Mexican tradition, this celebration resonates deeply across cultures — especially for us as Black women who understand the power of ancestral connection. It’s about honoring the ones who came before us — the matriarchs, the warriors, the dreamers — and reflecting on how their strength flows through us today. ✨

The Ritual of Remembrance

At the heart of Día de los Muertos is the ofrenda — a home altar filled with photos, flowers, and items that represent the loved ones we honor. You don’t have to be Mexican to create your own sacred space of remembrance.

Here’s how you can bring that energy into your home:

Set up a small table or shelf with candles, framed photos, and meaningful keepsakes.
Add fresh marigolds — their golden color symbolizes the light guiding souls home.
Include their favorite things — maybe your grandma’s pearls, your dad’s favorite record, or your aunt’s cherished perfume.
Light incense or sage to cleanse the space and invite peace.

This ritual isn’t just about them — it’s a beautiful act of healing for you, too.

Beauty with Intention

Beauty rituals during this time are more than surface deep — they’re spiritual.
Think about your self-care as a way to connect to your roots. Here are a few ideas:

Adorn yourself with color. Bright reds, deep purples, and bold golds celebrate life and vitality.
Use flower-scented oils — marigold, jasmine, or rose — to uplift your spirit.
Try face painting or vibrant makeup looks inspired by the iconic calavera (sugar skull) — not as costume, but as creative homage.
Braid your hair or wrap it in colorful scarves as a nod to the divine feminine energy passed down through generations.

(LTK Finds:)

NARS Radiant Creamy Concealer – for that fresh, glowing look.
Fenty Beauty Stunna Lip Paint in Uncensored – bold, unapologetic red that honors your power.
T3 Curl ID Smart Curling Iron – perfect for soft, elegant curls that frame your beautiful face.

Celebrate Through Food and Flavor

Food is memory — and during Día de los Muertos, traditional dishes are prepared not only to nourish but to remember.
Even if you don’t make pan de muerto (sweet bread) or tamales, you can still cook a meal that connects to your heritage.
Maybe it’s your mama’s collard greens, sweet potatoes, or that pound cake everyone loved. As you stir, bake, and season — speak their names.

That’s the real beauty of this celebration — the blending of memory, love, and flavor.

Living Legacy

Día de los Muertos reminds us that our ancestors never truly leave us. Their wisdom lives in our hearts, their rhythm in our laughter, and their resilience in our every step.

So, this season, whether you’re lighting candles or wearing a vibrant flower crown, remember — you are part of a beautiful, unbroken chain of love and legacy.

Here’s to honoring our roots, embracing our beauty, and celebrating life — fully, colorfully, and joyfully. 💛

✨ CTA:
How are you honoring your ancestors this season, sis? Share your traditions or rituals in the comments — let’s celebrate together! 🌸

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Time Change Reset: Sleep, Skincare, and Sunday Soup

When the clocks roll back, it’s more than just gaining an hour of sleep—it’s your cue for a seasonal reset, sis. Let’s turn this time change into a moment of self-care that helps you fall back but move forward in your wellness.

Daylight Savings Wind-Down Routine

As the days get shorter, our bodies crave more rest. Use this time to create a calming bedtime ritual:

Dim your lights early.
Put your phone down 30 minutes before bed.
Sip a soothing herbal tea and stretch your body.

This helps your mind slow down and signals your body it’s time for deep rest—not just a nap.

Overnight Glow-Up: Sleep + Skincare Combo

Cooler nights can mean drier air, and that’s no friend to glowing melanin. Before you drift off:
Apply a mineral-rich sleep mask (try Sephora’s Mineral Sleep Mask for a hydrating boost).
Run a cool-mist humidifier (like this one from Amazon) to keep your skin and sinuses happy.
Slip your head onto a satin pillowcase (available at Walmart)—because “Black don’t crack,” but sis, satin helps it stay that way.

Sunday Supper: One-Pot Turkey & Greens Soup

A comforting bowl that feeds your soul and supports your heart health:
Ingredients:

1 lb lean ground turkey
1 onion + 2 cloves garlic, minced
4 cups low-sodium chicken broth
2 cups chopped collard or mustard greens
1 sweet potato, diced
1 tsp smoked paprika
Salt-free seasoning blend to taste

Directions:
Brown the turkey and onions, then add everything else and simmer for 30 minutes. Serve warm with a slice of whole-grain toast. Blood pressure–friendly and body-hugging comfort in one pot.