Sis, December has a way of whispering, “Slow down, decorate softly, breathe deeper, and make your home feel like a hug.”
And for those of us over 50, this season hits different — our priorities shift, our energy changes, and we crave peace, beauty, and meaning more than ever.
So let’s talk about how to make your home feel like a sanctuary this month… without stress, without overspending, and with all the joy you deserve.
1. Embrace a Softer, Slower December Home
This is the season where our homes become our retreat. You don’t need a complete makeover — just intentional touches that make your space feel warm and welcoming.
Try adding:
A scented candle with warm notes like vanilla, amber, or sandalwood
A cozy throw blanket draped over your favorite chair
Soft lighting — lamps over bright overheads
A simple wreath on your door for instant cheer
These little touches shift the energy of your whole home.
LTK Home Picks:
Barefoot Dreams CozyChic Throw
Capri Blue Volcano Candle (Holiday edition)
Threshold Knit Throw Pillow (Target)
2. Create a “Maven Moments” Corner
Sis, once you hit 50, you understand the value of a corner that’s just for you.
This could be:
A reading nook near a window
A meditation corner with soft pillows
A small desk for writing, planning, or dreaming
A cozy lounge space for tea and stillness
Your “Maven Moments” corner is where you refill your cup before pouring into everyone else.
3. Practice Home Rituals That Bring Peace
Your home should support your spirit, not overwhelm it. December is perfect for starting gentle rituals that ground you.
A few favorites:
Evening wind-down: dim the lights, turn on soft music, sip herbal tea
Sunday reset: wash linens, tidy your space, prep for the week
Morning intention: light a candle, speak affirmations, breathe deeply
These rituals are simple, but they create a sense of calm and control in a busy season.
4. Celebrate the Season… Without the Stress
You don’t have to “do the most” to make your home feel festive. You can keep it elegant and simple:
Decorate in one or two colors—gold and cream, or deep red and chocolate
Add winter greenery in vases instead of big displays
Use ornaments in a decorative bowl for easy, classy styling
Swap your usual kitchen towels and table runner for holiday versions
Make it beautiful, but make it easy.
LTK Décor Recommendations:
Hearth & Hand Stoneware Vase
Target Holiday Table Runners
Glass Ornament Set from Pottery Barn
5. Cook With Love, Not Pressure
December cooking doesn’t have to be a marathon. As Mature Melanin Mavens, we’re choosing meals that nourish us and feel good to prepare.
Think:
One-pot soups
Sheet-pan dinners
Slow cooker meals
Lighter, healthier versions of comfort favorites
Let your kitchen be a place of joy — not overwhelm.
6. Host the Way You Want to Host
Hosting in your 50s and beyond hits differently — we’re choosing comfort over chaos.
Here’s how to host without losing your peace:
Potluck-style: everyone brings a dish
Dessert-only gatherings: so easy and still festive
Tea + conversation evenings
Small brunch with close friends
Sis, you do not have to host a big event to create beautiful memories.
7. Declutter Before the New Year
One of the most freeing December rituals?
Letting things go.
A little decluttering gives you room to breathe and invites new blessings in.
Try focusing on:
Clothes you haven’t worn in two years
Old paperwork
Kitchen items you never use
Expired beauty products
Holiday décor that doesn’t fit your style anymore
You will feel so much lighter moving into January.
8. Add Beauty to Your Everyday Life
December is also the perfect time to sprinkle beauty into your day, just because:
Fresh flowers on your counter
A luxurious robe for slow mornings
A new mug for your coffee or tea
Pretty slippers that make you smile
These small things make ordinary days feel special.
LTK Lifestyle Picks:
UGG Coquette Slippers
Pottery Barn Oversized Mug Set
Spa-Style Robe from Nordstrom
9. Protect Your Peace This Holiday Season
Sis, this is your season of boundaries.
You’re allowed to:
Say no
Rest instead of host
Keep gatherings small
Do things your way
Prioritize your mental health
Your home is your safe space — treat it like the sanctuary it is.
Final Thoughts, Maven
December isn’t about perfection. It’s about peace, joy, and creating a home that loves you back.
Here’s what I want you to remember:
✨ Your home reflects how you treat yourself.
✨ You deserve softness and simplicity.
✨ You can create beauty without pressure.
✨ This is your month to shine from the inside out.
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