Take your time.
Do what is best for you and your family.
Never allow others to influence or persuade you to do what is right for them; YOU ARE NOT THEM!
Some people will be negative and unsupportive about your life choices; typically, because they were not strong enough, wise enough, or ready to make the right choice for themselves. Do not allow them to project those negative emotions and or behaviors onto you.
Think before you speak; say what you mean, but with empathy and compassion. Always remember, other people's life experiences.